Bye Bye Shy Guy

August 20, 2009 by  
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"He’s so shy, he never talks to anyone." "She always clams up around new people." Maybe when you were growing up you were protected from conversation because you were shy. Perhaps you were the little girl in the beauty shop next to me recently, getting her hair cut.

The girl of about 6 years old obviously wasn’t in the mood to talk. Her mom says, "Oh she is just shy. She is really good at the silent treatment."

And the hairdresser says, "I feel really sorry for the husband she will have".

And the little girl sits there taking it all in.
Maybe she is wondering why anyone would feel sorry for her husband. And since there are at least three people staring at her, this becomes an emotional memory.

ConfidenceAs an adult, you might wonder why you are not as social as you like to be. Why do you blush when you are around other people? What makes you become insecure and scared when others are having a conversation? Why do you clam up when you really want to speak your mind?

If you repeatedly heard your mother or father or teacher saying "She is just shy, she won’t talk to anybody" how on earth are you going to start opening up and feeling comfortable around people?

We learn who we are and how to act when we are very little. The things that are stated and then REPEATEDLY hammered into your tiny little very receptive brain have tremendous power.

A young brain that is like a sponge ready to soak up every word and idea and make it into a belief, takes these words and says "hmmm, I guess I am shy". Since mom seems to be the authority around here, she must be right. And since I have heard this no less than 10,456 times and she always says it when someone tries to start a conversation with me, I will simply shut the h3ll up". Although the child probably doesn’t say h-e-double hockey sticks.  (I am laughing now, because I actually had an adult customer call me who was not able to say he11 so she said h-e-double hockey sticks)


Anyway, the thing is, we become what we are told to become.  What is your problem? Pick as many as apply.
  • I am painfully shy
  • I blush around people
  • Stammering expert, that’s me
  • Can’t think of an intelligent thought around others
  • Bad at eye contact- please don’t look at me
  • My bad posture says it all- I’d rather be dead than around all these people
  • Never think of a funny line until way too late
  • Intimidated by anyone who is confident
  • I won’t go out of the house
  • On a date, I say the stupidest things
  • I put myself down, talk myself into feeling useless
When you think about these things, do you start to recall the comments you grew up with? Do the faces of any of your teachers come to mind? I know I have a few that pop into my head instantly. If I can find Mrs. Fast from 3rd grade I am going to give her a piece of my mind.

First thing- stop reinforcing shyness in your kids. If you are dealing with a shy child, start saying, "it is easy to talk to people, it will be fun for you to ask them questions." Let your shy kids answer questions when asked, rather than jumping in and answering for them or stating that they are too shy to answer.

As we move through the many stages of life CONFIDENCE is the single most important quality we can have. In every interaction, business, love, parenting, travel, socializing, our level of confidence determines the joy in our experience.
Let go of fear. Be the person you know you can be.
Experience yourself as the grand and wondrous being you are when you are confident.

And on that note, I have a little something for you. Our NEW Confidence Power Pack CD set is probably the most life changing series of hypnotic experiences you will ever own. Use these slowly over time or all at once. Either way, your life changes because your beliefs about yourself will change.  
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Cold CallYes, you do! You can’t wait to get that phone in your hand and call people who have no idea who you are.
You love to convince them to give you money for things.

Am I right or what?


I will hypnotize you to help you love it.  This really works. I would not kid you about such an important thing.
If you don’t believe me, I will call you tonight… about dinner time.
Here is a very nice testimonial from Michele who LOVES our cold calling CD.

Dear Wendi,
Out if economic necessity, I became a part time entrepreneur, selling business to business services as a virtual assistant. My coach encouraged me to start cold calling businesses. Well, my self esteem was not very high at all and I was terrified of picking up that phone.

I hadn’t given up my "day job" yet, so I had a half hour during the work day to make calls. I was doing real good to make 3 calls a day, on those days that I worked up the nerve to call at all. I bought Wendi’s cold calling CD. I only played it three times, as I was drifting off to sleep (by the way, I had been having trouble sleeping, too; but when I listen to the CD, I am out like a light!) After only listening for three nights, 1 made 11 calls in a half hour!

Thanks, Wendi! I’ll be coming back to your sight to see what else you have that will help me!

-Michele H
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Cold CallingWhat if you actually enjoyed cold calling? Imagine not only loving to cold call, but being great at it. Once you listen to this CD you will not be able to even think about how painful it was before. Isn’t it about time to get more appointments and make more money? Learn more!

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Confidence Power PackThis package has some very intriguing and life changing hypnosis sessions that will help you stop being shy and uncomfortable and begin to feel that you can light up a room, be spontaneous and interesting. Learn more!

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Quote "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
–Marianne Williamson
Another Reason to Smile!
Here is a fascinating article that shows how and why we get into a horrible rut. There are rats and electric shocks involved. I am sure you will enjoy reading it.
Your persistent negative thoughts and constant stress creates a condition in your brain that is shown to make the rats unable to return to goal directed behavior or to solve problems or try new ways to get out of the maze.

Being human, when you have enough stress over a period of time your brain loses it’s ability to be resourceful or direct itself toward a goal. In our economy these days, it might be that stress has done this to your brain.

Read the research, it is fascinating.
See the article here

Stressed? Take time right now to let it go! A 3 minute session will make you feel a little better.
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2 Responses to “Bye Bye Shy Guy”
  1. Terry says:

    I’ve been using the confidence power pack and the results are outstanding.
    I feel much much more certain about myself than before. It’s a superior product to use and I would recommend it to others.
    Thanks for being there!


  2. Linnea says:

    Thank you, Wendi. I have used your self-hypnosis mastery CD and I think that I’m getting better and better with practice–at least with relaxation and sleep. Omigosh, with sleep it has been amazing. It didn’t really have a difficult time sleeping most of the time, but now I can relax and go to sleep just about any time.
    Some other suggestions that I’ve tried to use do not seem to have worked so well: controlling my diet (I need to lose a few pounds), developing my breasts (I’d like them to be larger–that’s probably counter to my desire to lose some weight), and procrastination (I’ve actually done better with this one).
    But the bottom line is that the instruction, support, and inspiration you have provided has helped me.
    Thank you.

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