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Wendi.TV today- Why do you Sabotage the good things in your life?


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You focused, worked hard and made something good happen. Just when things seem to be getting better, with a chance to finally make some money- you seem to take a sharp left and do something stupid to destroy all the progress you made.
You just decided to go on the most powerful, unstoppable, body altering diet of the century. Everything is ready- and suddenly you find yourself wrist deep in a gallon of ice cream with no hope of stopping until your face in firmly planted in the carton as you lick the delicate creamy residue.
You managed to quit drinking. You powered through the withdrawals, counted the minutes of sobriety you had accumulated, decided that this 12 step misery wasn’t really that bad… and then on a day that should have been a happy occasion you suddenly nose dive and feel comfort in the bottom of your glass of gin.
… if you find yourself in the thoughts above, you are not alone. Self Sabotage can strike at the strangest times and in the middle of the happiest times.
Just when things are going really well, you dive deep. Whether it is food, drugs, alcohol, failing at a job or business venture or destroying a relationship that was the only thing you valued in your life… you end up perplexed and dumbfounded that you could have sunk so low.
Just when you thought you had it all figured out.
Just when things were coming together.
Just when you had prepared, put so much work into it, focused and cheered yourself on… it all took a wrong turn.
Familiar feeling?
Do you know that one all too well?
This week LIVE on Wendi.TV you will find out the truth about self sabotage, worthiness and the real reason you fail despite your best plans and intentions.
TUNE IN TODAY.
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday
12 noon Pacific
3 pm Eastern
Find your local time here
http://www.Wendi.TV
THIS WEEK-
Self Sabotage.
Watch live here-
http://www.ustream.tv/channel/wendi.tv
The show is free, dontcha know.
It is filled so full, it is just oozing with help and ideas to make your entire day feel like you are surrounded by rainbows and unicorns.
Chat live during the show.
See you shortly.
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DID YOU CATCH THE SHOW ON PROCRASTINATION LAST WEEK? HERE IS THE REPLAY!
It is at the Ustream page.
http://www.ustream.tv/channel/wendi.tv
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I have some really great specials for you during today’s show. Be sure to come and watch and listen.
It starts in just a few minutes!
Remember, I love you,
Wendi Friesen
Need serious help?
Take 50% off today, if you need to stop the depression, anger and hopelessness.
My Life- A program to end depression
Chill Out- A program to end your anger
Happiness 101- A program to let go and start feeling happy again.
Quit Smoking- Stop the cravings, get serious!
Use the coupon SERIOUS to to take 50% off these and get your life started.
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877.68.HAPPY
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Wendi Friesen, CHT
Here in California it is sunny. But last week was the darkest, wettest week we have seen in forever. For the midwest… well, enjoy. It is coming your way.
A little sunshine is a great thing! Big waves here at my beach after the storm. So fun to watch.
I watched a recent show on 20/20 about a chain of children’s dentists that hold them down and let them scream as they work on their teeth.
Did you see it?
So sad. And the trauma will stay with those kids. It hurts to know this is going on.
For the last 2 weeks I have been working on a great project that will give dentists everywhere access to hypnotic sedation (using hypnosis sessions while patients are in the chair) and help anyone alleviate their dental fears.
So- do you have dental anxiety?
Were you traumatized as a child?
Do those very long needles scare the crap out of you?
I think that this project will give everyone access to a blissful dental visit.
So many great things about this project. If you are in the dental business in any capacity, please give me a shout! I need to talk to you!
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Tags: alcohol, anxiety, diet, drugs, Happiness, misery, real reason, relationship, self, self sabotage, sobriety, wendi, Wendi Friesen, withdrawals, worthiness, wrong turn

These feet need a new dance
I am in a transition phase.
Got an itch, must scratch.
On my facebook profile I mentioned that I have a lot of frequent flier miles to use and asked for suggestions on where to go. I have had some really good proposals.
The most recent, and the one that prompted me to expose my plan, is an invite to Borneo. It has to do with saving the Orangutans. There are people working to save the Orangutans and help to increase the tourism to support the wildlife and their culture.
I’ve had offers to go to Germany, Ireland, Greece (this one is more than an offer, it is non-stop begging!), India, Borneo, Dubai, Alaska and a few others fascinating places in the world. My fans have the most fascinating lives all over the world and I have reached the point where I am unable to resist your offers.

I’ve been hatching an idea that came up when I was in France a couple of years ago.
I was driving on a winding road in a tiny town and stopped to ask directions at a little bakery. After some pointing and sign language I was on my way, but couldn’t shake the curiosity about the every day life of one woman who is making croissants every day in a little village in France.
What would it be like to live someone’s life, not just visit, but life their life for a week or so?
All over the world people do fascinating jobs, and find happiness in such unique ways. I think that moment started it all. We are all trying to be happy in our lives doing whatever it is we do.
And what brings us real happiness?
What makes you truly happy?

You might feel that your life is ordinary and maybe even boring.
But to someone else from another country or culture your life might be an adventure.
And what if I could let all my beautiful friends and fans help me take a happiness tour around the world and share it with everyone.
It might just change your mind about what you are doing and give you the courage you need to make a change in your life. Or it might just be mildly entertaining to watch me shovel elephant poop. (seriously, this place www.ElephantStay.com is on my list)
The plan is in motion.
The initial idea is to let you decide where I will go and what I will do in the pursuit of happiness.With so many different ways to live passionately, or just to do what you love to do no matter how simple it seems, there are lots of cool things that you can share with the world.
What do you do that is unique?
Why does it make you happy?
How did you decide to live the life you are living?
I want to find out, in person. No matter where you are in the world and no matter what you do, it might become one of my destinations.
There is a little tech work to do. I need a website that lets people describe their life and the opportunity to come and live it. The site will need to let visitors vote on where they want me to go next, have the show videos of what makes your life so unique or simply happy. It needs a tracking map to show where I have been and where I am headed. If anyone wants to offer their tech services to create a site and maintain it, let me know right away.
Thanks to Rick Butts for giving me a big push to make this project more than an idea. And thanks to all of you who just recently have made this an irresistible project.
Leave your comments with ideas for this project.
I am all in.
Love you… and maybe soon will be on your doorstep.
Where in the World is Wendi
Better start packing!
Tags: adventure, change, courage, curiosity, frequent flier miles, Happiness, life, opportunity, places in the world, proposals, transition phase, village in france, wendi, work
If you are tormented by your past, you will want to read this.


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Can you really put the past
behind you?
On the show this week we talked about how to put the negative memories, events and other various emotionally devastating traumas in the past.
The show was on addiction, but the method of putting the past behind us is something everyone needs. Let’s face it, we are all struggling with things we did in the past. Or maybe we are fighting the memories of things that were done to us.
Maybe your obsessive thought is just an image of something you saw that you simply cannot get out of your head.
People always ask me if I can make them just forget it, erase it, or eliminate it.
It might be possible, but probably won’t be permanent and will still have the emotional content of that memory. And that emotional content is what causes all the trouble.
The emotional content of the memory floods the body with a release of chemicals, even years later. The chemicals continue to be released, but even worse, this affects how your cells reproduce.
What do do? How to change it?
Trying to use hypnosis to block the memory does not stop the chemical release of the emotional memory, so a better way to handle it, would be to change the content of the memory.
When you activate the feelings associated with the memory, and then look at it in a different way, you can change the emotional content.
For instance, if you had an embarrassing event years ago, you can look into that memory and ask your very wise inner self to find the positive lesson or the thing that you have decided as a result of this experience.
When you bring the positive lesson into the memory and put in the new emotions that go along with that new powerful belief, the memory no longer sends the chemicals of fear or sadness or guilt or anger into your body.
Make sense so far?
Anything that triggers the old memory is now met with a new response. The old memory didn’t go away, but the reaction has changed. If this process is done well there should be an entirely new feeling ( something like a “yippee I feel so dang good now” sort of reaction) that results from the old memory being triggered.
And this is why even hard core addicts and alcoholics have totally eliminated their cravings.
You still with me?
Now- think about this.
You have 100s or 1000s or bazillions of these old memories running amok in your brain. They are not all causing havoc, but there are a few key ones that are totally helping you feel depressed, afraid, filled with anxiety, turning to drugs and alcohol and diving deep into hopelessness and despair.
Here’s the solution.
This is why people have miraculous healing.
The very real result of these crappy memories is how this affects our health. (not to mention your worthiness)
When you are depressed your immunity is compromised.
When you are angry your emotions cause damaging stress.
When you are stressed your body cannot fight off viruses, bacteria, cancer and disease.
Let’s change it.
It is really not as hard as it sounds.
When you watch the shows from this week, you will understand more. (links to shows below)
But if you want the fast track to obliterate the bad joo joo, I’ve got your back.
The holy trinity of healing the past.
Forgiveness
Resolving the Past
Releasing the triggers
How much will it cost to fix it all up?
Not much. These three hypnotherapy sessions are some of the most powerful work I have done for my clients over the years.
These are the result of 1000s of sessions with clients who have serious difficulty with depression and health issues.
I believe that NOTHING is more POWERFUL than the experience you will have when you resolve the past.
Let’s do this!
All 3 sessions- were $87.
But for you, I combined them into one sadness, anger and depression smashing package, and if you download it you can have it for only $29.
Yes, the entire package is only $29.
Find out how to get this, now
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DID YOU CATCH THE SHOW ON ADDICTION THIS WEEK? HERE IS THE REPLAY!
If you want to stop your addictive cravings, bad habits, and fears of never getting clean and sober, you have to watch this.
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If you decide to do my program for RELEASING THE PAST, consider using a journey to write down the feelings, thoughts and new beliefs that emerge as a result. Writing in a journal has amazing power and doing it right after each session can totally help your brain transform the pain of your past.
Remember, I love you,
Wendi Friesen
Need serious help?
Take 50% off today, if you need to stop the depression, anger and hopelessness.
My Life- A program to end depression
Chill Out- A program to end your anger
Happiness 101- A program to let go and start feeling happy again.
Quit Smoking- Stop the cravings, get serious!
Use the coupon SERIOUS to to take 50% off these and get your life started.
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877.68.HAPPY
916.933.0700
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Wendi Friesen, CHT
On Wednesday I was in the audience at the Conan O’Brien show.
I really like Conan and will be sad to see him go. He’s a funny guy. His life long dream of being the host of the tonight show got yanked out from under him.
At least he still has his fame and money. Phew. What a relief, huh?
(I was so worried for him)
Haiti Help
On a serious note, the earthquake in Haiti is just so devastating and unimaginable from our comfortable, warm, safe homes.
Let’s help out.
100% of the sale of either of these programs, will be donated to the RED CROSS.
Ho’oponopono
OR
Stress Release
Use Coupon Code REDCROSS to get either or both of these and by the end of the day on Saturday the entire proceeds will be paid directly to the RED CROSS.
Thank you for helping out and receiving a gift from me as a thank you!
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Tags: addict, addiction, alcohol, anxiety, body, brain, change, coupon code, drugs, emotional memory, free, funny, gift, Happiness, health, hypnosis, hypnotherapy, life, money, past, self, sessions, think thin, weight, wendi, Wendi Friesen, work, worthiness
The Wendi.TV show is so bloated and full, it should be put on a diet!


| I love you guys!
One of you asked me ~~~~~
Wendi, how can I believe that change is possible when I am feeling hopeless?
And what about the old emotions and past failures that stop me from trying again?
Whether it is weight, exercise, habits, addictions or any behavior change, this session will blow you away. And I don’t say that lightly.
Read the description. This might be the single biggest thing you do if you want to change a habit or addiction. (and take an additional 30% off the sale price with the coupon below)
Emotional Dump. See it here.
An another brilliant man asked me~~~~~
Wendi, how about making it seem like I have always LOVED to workout, that it has been a lifestyle and make me feel that I do it everyday. Like brushing my teeth, getting dressed. Make me feel like I just work out every day because it is what I have always done.
BRILLIANT!
Yes, I loved this idea. And I made a kick ass session that will equate working out with the things you have always done, the things that are automatic and simple. Then I asked your brain to accept that you have always done this and always will keep on doing it.
Workout Lifestyle- Re-Imprinting memories. See it here
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Additional 30% off the SALE price on both of the sessions above!
Use coupon code
MAX30
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Remember to come to the show and get all the help you need, including actually hypnosis sessions during the show.
Live Every Week!
Put it on your Calendar, set an alarm.
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.
Noon Pacific time
3 pm Eastern
Find your local time here
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Are you again struggling to try to figure out why your resolutions will fail?
Why do you feel hopeless about making a big or small change?
Is your excitement for the new year not all it should be?
Catch the archives now, and join me next week.
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Remember, I love you,
Wendi Friesen
PS- I have a list of programs that are all about ending your bad habits and addictions and I gave out a 50% off link during the live show.
I think there are a few of you who might also be ready to stop the bad habits, bt you could not make the show.
You need to stop procrastinating, drinking, p0rn, fingernail biting, smoking and more, more, more.
To get the list and the COUPON code, please do this:
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Email to OFFICE@WENDI.COM
Subject line- must say:
My Fantastic Resolution
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You will receive a return email with the links and the discount. I will make it good for ONE day, so grab it now.
And be sure to TWITTER the show link, just send friends to
http://www.Wendi.TV and they will get to enjoy the show for free as well.
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877.68.HAPPY
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Wendi Friesen, CHT
Thank goodness the holidays are over. As special as it can be, I always feel a sigh of relief when I can put away all that tacky xmas stuff.
I think that for most people, the thought of new years resolutions are met with a feeling similar to hitting yourself in the head with a hammer. Seriously- another diet? Another attempt at working out every day?
Step away from
the hammer.
Two of my members gave me brilliant ideas for sessions. Just brilliant.
If you want to make a suggestion for a topic just email it to me by replying to this email. If I like it, I will make it! You guys are really inspiring and the thing I love the MOST about what I do is being in close contact with you.
Be sure to read the PS at the bottom. I have a cool secret offer for you.
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Tags: addict, addiction, alcohol, behavior change, body, brain, change, coupon code, diet, exercise habits, free, friends, friesen, gift, health, hypnosis, life, lifestyle, mind, past, personality, resolutions, sale, self, sessions, think thin, video, weight, wendi, Wendi Friesen, work, workout
3 days to shake it up, make that change, end those nasty habits.


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Or send to:
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Let’s Get it Started!
Live TODAY!
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.
Noon Pacific time
3 pm Eastern
Find your local time here
Wendi.TV
Tune in here-
http://www.Wendi.TV
OR at Ustream
http://www.ustream.tv/channel/wendi.tv
Are you again struggling to try to figure out why your resolutions will fail?
Why do you feel hopeless about making a big or small change?
Is your excitement for the new year not all it should be?
This show is completely free and you can chat with me during the show!
Love to you!
Wendi
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20 People on today’s show will get the Ho’oponopono for free, as my gift.
Pay attention to the trivia questions and you might just be a winner!
You can see it here-
Get the CD for a friend you love, here.
Or download it.
If you need some love and a deep renewal,
download it here.
Remember, I love you,
Wendi Friesen
PS- Remember to send me your New Years Resolution questions right now, just email them to me by replying to this email.
Or send to
Yourmind@wendi.com
I might just answer your questions on the show.
And be sure to TWITTER the show link, just send friends to
http://www.Wendi.TV and they will get to enjoy the show for free as well.
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877.68.HAPPY
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Wendi Friesen, CHT
Thank goodness the holidays are over. As special as it can be, I always feel a sigh of relief when I can put away all that tacky xmas stuff. And now, let’s get serious about doing what we love!
Join me LIVE on Wendi.tv and let me show you how easy it can be to stop that old crappy mental attitude that is so 2009.
I have something in store for you today that will make you smile and get you focused.
Tell your friends, it is free!
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