Resolutions! How are those working out for you, now that the month is almost over?
Survey of over 3000 people showed that 88% failed at their resolutions.
Here it is. The hard, cold facts.
WATCH THIS VIDEO!!
If you ever want to accomplish anything in your life, you have to understand this. And never make another resolution.
You want to desperately change. You go buy a treadmill, you enroll in a procrastination course, you join weight watchers, you swear you will not take another drink.
And still, that insane brain of yours keeps defaulting to the only thing it knows.
You are Hardwired. Hard. Wired.
Your brain can only go to the place that you wired it up to go to.
Your brain cannot go to places that don’t exist.
YET.
Watch the Video. Like your life depends on it.
Look.
It’s crazy really.
The more you try to NOT do something, the more confused your brain will become. Your brain has to do SOMETHING. And the one thing it knows really well, the thing it is hardwired to do… is the very thing that you don’t want.
Watch the dang video already.
Support groups. Maybe you joined a support group so you can stop procrastinating, overeating, having anxiety, being depressed, quitting drinking.
Awesome.
What do you spend all your time talking about while in that group?
What do you focus on during that time?
More of the same?
Sad stories, fears, worry, strategies to cope, other people’s problems?
How much time is spent on changing all that internal crap in your subconscious mind that is running the show?
Watch the video, pretty please.
It is not that all support groups are bad, they are just mostly getting it wrong.
What you think about… expands.
Thoughts are things.
You become what you think about most of the time.
What you resist… persists.
We have hard science that now shows us why this happens. If you are checking out Joe Dispenza or Bruce Lipton or ME you are starting to get really smart about the neural networks in your brain and the genetic changes that happen as a result.
Is addiction really a disease?
Are you doomed to be addiction the rest of your life?
Should you really attach this identity to your name-Â
“hi, I’m Joe and I’m an alcoholic”-Â
and expect to be anything else?
Are you really going to say to yourself, one more time, “I just can’t stop eating sugar” or “I can’t lose weight, I just love to eat too much”.
??? Really ???
Ok, Breathe.
Relax your shoulders.
Breathe again.
Hear my voice. It’s all going to be ok. Let’s get started.
Watch the video.
I love you,
Wendi
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